Subject - How you treat me is your karma,
HOW YOU TREAT ME IS YOUR KARMA,
HOW I REACT, IS MY KARMA!
Why is it so difficult for us to forgive others?
Why do we find it so hard to let go?
Sometimes, even years after a certain incident;
sometimes, even after they have apologized;
sometimes, when they have hurt you unknowingly
and have no idea that you are struggling to forgive them.
Why? Because We are usually under the misconception
that we will be doing them a favor by forgiving them.
That in fact, is not the case.
When we forgive someone, we actually do ourselves a huge favor
because through forgiveness ,we release all the negative thoughts,
emotions and energies that we are so desperately holding onto in our anger.
Replaying the moment again and again in our mind, torturing ourselves in so many ways.
In fact it hurts us more than the ones who hurt us.
Perhaps we find it hard to forgive because we think
we are in the more powerful position when we hold back forgiveness.
But in actual fact we are the weak ones, if that's the kind of power
we rely on to give us strength.
We are also not able to forgive because we take everything so personally.
Not everything another person does is done with the conscious intention of hurting you.
Sometimes they are just trying to protect themselves and that's the best they way they know how to protect themselves.
Haven't you heard of the saying 'The Best Defence is Offense'?
We need to give allowance to others for their insecurities
and their imperfections without taking things personally.
So even if you do it for the most selfish of reasons, go ahead and forgive.
First, forgive yourself for holding onto the grudge for as long as you did.
Then, forgive the other person.
Finally, BE Yourself.
Walk in peace love and gratitude
Friends/relatives are blessings that come into our life
originally disguised as strangers.
Remember to always listen to the wisdom
of your own inner voice, and follow your heart.
Everyday when you wake up in the morning, tell out loudly
I am going to be happy and will not let anything
come in between to make myself upset or stressed
as I will live with the blessing from the great one above.
HOW I REACT, IS MY KARMA!
Why is it so difficult for us to forgive others?
Why do we find it so hard to let go?
Sometimes, even years after a certain incident;
sometimes, even after they have apologized;
sometimes, when they have hurt you unknowingly
and have no idea that you are struggling to forgive them.
Why? Because We are usually under the misconception
that we will be doing them a favor by forgiving them.
That in fact, is not the case.
When we forgive someone, we actually do ourselves a huge favor
because through forgiveness ,we release all the negative thoughts,
emotions and energies that we are so desperately holding onto in our anger.
Replaying the moment again and again in our mind, torturing ourselves in so many ways.
In fact it hurts us more than the ones who hurt us.
Perhaps we find it hard to forgive because we think
we are in the more powerful position when we hold back forgiveness.
But in actual fact we are the weak ones, if that's the kind of power
we rely on to give us strength.
We are also not able to forgive because we take everything so personally.
Not everything another person does is done with the conscious intention of hurting you.
Sometimes they are just trying to protect themselves and that's the best they way they know how to protect themselves.
Haven't you heard of the saying 'The Best Defence is Offense'?
We need to give allowance to others for their insecurities
and their imperfections without taking things personally.
So even if you do it for the most selfish of reasons, go ahead and forgive.
First, forgive yourself for holding onto the grudge for as long as you did.
Then, forgive the other person.
Finally, BE Yourself.
Walk in peace love and gratitude
Friends/relatives are blessings that come into our life
originally disguised as strangers.
Remember to always listen to the wisdom
of your own inner voice, and follow your heart.
Everyday when you wake up in the morning, tell out loudly
I am going to be happy and will not let anything
come in between to make myself upset or stressed
as I will live with the blessing from the great one above.
Very Beautifully said Lakshminarayanan, I had struggled many years without understanding this theory of Karma and you have explained it very Simple.
ReplyDeleteI thank you for bringing this awareness to me